There are a considerable number of studies that have gone into stating that women usually discover what they truly need to know from their potential lover, just by their first kiss with them.
So, you really don’t need me to tell you how important the first kiss is, or even kissing someone is. The simple fact is that you must keep it simple yet exciting and the minute you do that, it becomes less pressurizing and more enjoyable.
Kissing is the most basic way to show any sort of affection or attraction towards someone and if you’re on a first date with someone, it’s but much obvious you’d end the date with a kiss, with due consent, of course, which could act as a catalyst to recon date number two.
But kissing is an art, which is mostly taken for granted, only because everything needs to get to the eventuality of what kissing initiates- s3x. People seldom forget that kissing someone is the most seductive and sensuous part of a s3xual experience and it should be mastered like a pro!
So, we’re going to list some simple and basic dos and don’ts for people who enjoy kissing and think it’s the most essential part of a good making out session:
Keep your tongue intact
Don’t take your tongue out foolishly to kiss at first. It’s just bad manners! Leave a little room for your lips to explore hers. Don’t take your tongue out and slobber her face with it or try and stick it down her throat. First-time kissers should first spend time on just making lip contact. Maybe your second kiss can be a bit more intrusive?
Don’t make it slobbery
Kissing a woman is like having excellent table manners. You don’t eat with your mouth open, neither do you salivate on your food now do you? So why does it on someone’s face? No one, I repeat no one likes wet kisses and if you think they do, they’re probably being polite and not telling you the truth.
Touch, don’t grab
Use your hands delicately and gently, either around her waist or the back of her head. Don’t grab her and grope her in ways she’s uncomfortable. Give her the choice to break free from your hold on her, whenever she wants.
Be a firm kisser
By that, I mean don’t be clumsy or callous. Be firm and solid while kissing her. Women like resting their hands on a man’s shoulders to feel their strength while kissing them. Give her the chance to do so and be firm in your stance and your movement.
Keep it simple
Don’t go complicating a simple thing like kissing. it really doesn’t help when you over analyze a kiss and try too hard. It’s about sharing a moment with someone and not weakening the foundation of it by overthinking it. Just a simple kiss can initiate something passionate or exhilarating depending on where you want to go with it.
Consent is important
Yes, guys, consent is everything. A meaningful ‘can I kiss you?’ can really go a long way. When you ask for permission, it sounds gentlemanly to a woman too. So, don’t just kiss her without asking for permission first. Unless of course, you read the signs of her wanting to kiss you as well.
Make eye contact first
That’s important. And sort of inevitable but sometimes you’re so nervous, you really don’t know whether you need to look into the other person’s eyes. But yes, it’s a sign of intimacy and well, you also need to see where you’re going! But establishing warm eye contact is a good idea. Hold the eye contact for a while, be a bit romantic and then go for the kiss.